Hey Ted, remember that time in season 8 when you admitted to still having feelings for Robin, I thought that was the lamest thing ever. Dude, yes i realize you being the hopelessly romantic type believe in the notion of 'the one' and destiny and all but its been eight years so move on already.
But I will admit that when you left your important meeting and went to assist Robin even when she told you that she was 'okay', my heart went out to you dude. Yes you obviously care for Robin like a lot and you clearly understand her more than Barney does. Oh and yeah you have loved her longer.
They say there is one such person in everybody's life who loves you not only from their heart but from the soul, by their very existence of being. You were that guy for Robin. The strong connection you felt the first time you saw her, you fell in love with her very much into the first date, you even fought the nature for her, and who can forget the big romantic gesture of stealing a french horn and finally she had to comply. But even you have to admit that you guys were just not meant to be. Firstly, you were so very different. Robin always trying to hide what feminine side she had somewhere deep down and you trying to bring out not only her feminine side but also your own. And the fact that you guys were never on the same page didn't help matters either. You had probably started imagining a future together and naming your kids from your first week together though Robin had been quite clear that she wanted neither commitment nor kids in the near or even the distant future.
You guys broke up, decided not be be friends, finally got along to be friends even roommates and you decided that you still have feelings for her. You tried to make it work again, she had mixed feelings about the whole thing, thankfully you did not go for a big romantic gesture this time because believe me, it would have come off as super creepy. And Robin said the words "I love you but I am not in love with you" and friendzoned you forever. I feel for you, I really do.
If it were anybody for you Ted, that would have been the end of the story. You would have moved on and such but being the hopeless romantic that you are, well more hopeless and less romantic by now, you decided things are not over yet and you somehow still have feelings for her even though she is going to marry your best friend.
And I can imagine what you must be going through, she chose a womanizing untrustworthy jerk of a man over a trusting sweet romantic sensitive guy like you. And you must think that life is so unfair to you and all.
To tell you the truth, I didn't exactly like the idea of Robin and Barney ending up together either but over time I saw how they were just perfect for each other. Let me explain to you Ted, Robin is a strong independent woman and though she may be confused about everything else, she seems to be certain about Barney. Yes she had had her doubts but cleared them and moved on.I am sure by now you have an idea of how a big romantic gesture works, if you still don't, let me shed some light. A big romantic gesture is only romantic for the girl if she too is into the guy, otherwise it comes off as really creepy. The fact that Robin liked Barney's gestures and not yours should have been enough for you to realise that you are not meant to be. Barney and Robin they enjoy each other, they both have a knack for excitement and the thought of doing evil or unorthodox stuffs lights them up. They have so much in common, and while you may think this is a bad thing as they cannot 'complete each other' but this is the best thing that can happen to a couple. Ted, you will meet your girl someday, it is just not Robin. And she must be so very sorry to have hurt you time and again by not being able to reciprocate your love, but move on dude. I am pretty sure your girl is just right around the corner.
But I will admit that when you left your important meeting and went to assist Robin even when she told you that she was 'okay', my heart went out to you dude. Yes you obviously care for Robin like a lot and you clearly understand her more than Barney does. Oh and yeah you have loved her longer.
They say there is one such person in everybody's life who loves you not only from their heart but from the soul, by their very existence of being. You were that guy for Robin. The strong connection you felt the first time you saw her, you fell in love with her very much into the first date, you even fought the nature for her, and who can forget the big romantic gesture of stealing a french horn and finally she had to comply. But even you have to admit that you guys were just not meant to be. Firstly, you were so very different. Robin always trying to hide what feminine side she had somewhere deep down and you trying to bring out not only her feminine side but also your own. And the fact that you guys were never on the same page didn't help matters either. You had probably started imagining a future together and naming your kids from your first week together though Robin had been quite clear that she wanted neither commitment nor kids in the near or even the distant future.
You guys broke up, decided not be be friends, finally got along to be friends even roommates and you decided that you still have feelings for her. You tried to make it work again, she had mixed feelings about the whole thing, thankfully you did not go for a big romantic gesture this time because believe me, it would have come off as super creepy. And Robin said the words "I love you but I am not in love with you" and friendzoned you forever. I feel for you, I really do.
If it were anybody for you Ted, that would have been the end of the story. You would have moved on and such but being the hopeless romantic that you are, well more hopeless and less romantic by now, you decided things are not over yet and you somehow still have feelings for her even though she is going to marry your best friend.
And I can imagine what you must be going through, she chose a womanizing untrustworthy jerk of a man over a trusting sweet romantic sensitive guy like you. And you must think that life is so unfair to you and all.
To tell you the truth, I didn't exactly like the idea of Robin and Barney ending up together either but over time I saw how they were just perfect for each other. Let me explain to you Ted, Robin is a strong independent woman and though she may be confused about everything else, she seems to be certain about Barney. Yes she had had her doubts but cleared them and moved on.I am sure by now you have an idea of how a big romantic gesture works, if you still don't, let me shed some light. A big romantic gesture is only romantic for the girl if she too is into the guy, otherwise it comes off as really creepy. The fact that Robin liked Barney's gestures and not yours should have been enough for you to realise that you are not meant to be. Barney and Robin they enjoy each other, they both have a knack for excitement and the thought of doing evil or unorthodox stuffs lights them up. They have so much in common, and while you may think this is a bad thing as they cannot 'complete each other' but this is the best thing that can happen to a couple. Ted, you will meet your girl someday, it is just not Robin. And she must be so very sorry to have hurt you time and again by not being able to reciprocate your love, but move on dude. I am pretty sure your girl is just right around the corner.
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